| “If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will save it. What good is it for a man to gain the whole world, and yet lose or forfeit his very self?” |
| —the words of Jesus found in Luke 9:23-25 |
With a cleanched fist, perhaps the toddler held a penny tightly in his palm, or a piece to a puzzle, or a tiny animal from his barnyard play area. Any adult trying to get the toddler to release the dangerous-when-swallowed item knows the war of wills this entails.
We like to hold on to things, opinions, and plans that we have made, too. Although we don’t shout “MINE!” when confronted with the loss of such items, we feel it deep down. We want our own way. And, we clench our fists all the more when we get challenged to surrender what we hold tightly.
Jesus knew the struggle we have when He asks us to surrender control, and comfort, and those things that we think will make us happy. Yet, He wants us to look beyond what we can see—what we experience in the moment—so that we can get a look at the eternal things He has planned for us. God wants to give us so much. He wants to see us come to Him and humbly present our open hand, in order to receive what He wishes to give us. And, He wants us to extend that same open hand of love to others, so we may give them what we possess.
God knows the dangerous things we shouldn’t have in our possession. He knows that these dangerous things will take us down the wrong paths. He know that these dangerous things will try to take over the mastery of our time and energies. He sees what would happen if we were to “swallow” such things and own them. He knows they will bring us to our ruin.
During this Season of Lent, when others urge us to “give up” something, in order to deny ourselves some pleasure, we ought to focus our attention, not so much on the things that would fulfill the obligations we feel, but rather on those things God wants to take from us: the sins that so easily beset us, our unsurrendered wills, and the things that crowd Him out of our hearts.
Jim Elliot, the missionary to the Ecuadorian Huaorani people, who suffered martyrdom in 1956, famously said:
“He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose.”
Let us so live that we will not make God pry our fingers open, so we will release the dangerous things we hold onto so tightly. Instead, let’s freely open our hands and allow Him to take from us what He wishes to take, in order that He can give us all that He chooses to give us. If we do so, we will surely find the way to blessing!